Look closely at who you’re judging

TheSunshineArtist shouted out this piece by we’re not starving for this week’s Pay It Forward Thursday

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We’ve all thought something judgmental of another person. We’ve all succumbed to gossip. We’ve all been jealous of someone else.

What we sometimes don’t realize is that judgement and jealousy are windows into the holder’s inner life.

It’s a way to mask our own insecurities. Maybe we want to be more like the person we’re judging, maybe we see a likeness in ourselves, maybe they are a reflection of our own deepest fears…

Part of being confident is focusing on the good, the strength in others, and the opportunity for growth through others. We can learn so much just by watching other people’s actions and learning from their mistakes. We don’t have to make every single mistake ourselves in order to grow.

You don’t want people to talk shit about you, so why do you do it to other people? You don’t want people to judge you, so why…

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